Support Someone With Anorexia
Often, a person with an knows that she has a problem, but is embarrassed or afraid to seek help. Other times, a person denies that she has a problem, but feels that her eating patterns are out of her control. Here are some tips to help approach someone who you feel is suffering from disordered eating.
Instructions
1. Learn about the signs and symptoms of anorexia nervosa so that you can identify them properly. (See "Identify Anorexia," under Related eHows.) However, be careful not to overgeneralize, make assumptions or categorize a person.
2. Recognize that anorexia can be life-threatening and should not be considered "just a phase." It is estimated that 10 percent of anorexic cases are fatal.
3. Listen with understanding, respect and sensitivity. The person probably needs your attention and support more than she would like to admit.
4. Be persistent and consistent in your approach. Be firm, but kind. Tough love is better than no love.
5. Be available to the person and let her know that you are there to help. A person with anorexia may not want to talk immediately, but after reflection on the problem, she may want to come back to you.
6. Accompany the person to the doctor or help her make the initial phone call for help.
7. Share your own struggles without dominating a conversation. Create a safe environment to share sensitive emotions by actively listening to the person.
8. Research a list of available resources for the person to seek professional advice. Consult local hospitals, doctors and the Internet for support groups and treatment centers.
9. Make sure you have a place to get support for yourself; helping someone else can be emotionally draining. You will need support from both friends and professionals who are experienced in eating disorder intervention.
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